Blog: Health and Fitness
Life is Beautiful. I love serving the world by capturing beautiful family memories, encouraging others to believe in life’s greatest possibilities, and inspiring others to realize their full potential. Everyone has a story... make it a beautiful one.
1. Gratitude: being grateful for the life we have. In reality the people we are comparing ourselves to we may want something they have like talent but actually not really want the struggles they are going through. Being grateful for them showing you what your grateful for in your own life.
2. Focus on your strengths: focus on your own strengths and all the things you are capable of. Your strengths were given to YOU. Use them to serve others.
3. Be okay with being imperfect.
4. Have an abundant mindset! Know there is plenty to go around. Abundance is not limited to just certain people. You are worth of all life’s greatest blessings!
5. Have grace with yourself. Know that you matter and that your story and purpose matter.
Remember comparison if the thief of joy. It Leads you down a lonely and dreary path. Look at all that you are capable and give yourself a high five today for all that you have accomplished and how far you have come!
There many times in my life that I look in the mirror and see the person looking back at me and endlessly nick pick everything about that person.I was ashamed of the body I had. I was embarrassed. I hated how clothes fit me. I was always so overwhelmed but didn’t know what to do. I had a problem with accepting myself for I was because I never felt cute or pretty. I felt subconscious in everything I wore. I didn’t know how to truly love myself or my body. I felt that the reason I never got further in life was because I wasn’t pretty enough or skinny enough get there. I blamed my looks for a lot of things in life. But now I realize it was not the way I looked at all but the fact I wasn’t truly loving myself.
My journey of self love has taught me so much. To love myself for who I truly am. That health and fitness is a tool to become stronger and to love myself for the way I push myself with each workout. Having love for myself has taught me to gain real authentic confidence in myself and loving the women looking back at me everyday. The journey hasn’t been easy and there have been many moments of weakness. But the way I feel about who I am now is worth the tears and moments that felt like defeat.
Loving your body is a hard thing to do especially in a society that sets so many unrealistic expectations on you. Yes I believe in the power of moving your body each day because for one I’m predisposed to diabetes, I lived with family that had weight issues and saw the effects it can have on a person, and I love the way I feel.
If you struggle with looking the mirror each day loving the person looking back at you, there is hope in finding that true love for your self. Today, I am sharing with you some ways that have helped me overcome these struggles of loving my body in my life. Know that you are not alone in the journey of loving yourself.
These are some of the ways that have helped me to love who I am today:
- Stop blaming. Stop blaming your body and others around you. You are in control of your thoughts and actions. If you want change then make up your mind now to change and take action.
- Don’t live on a comment from elementary school. Oh my gosh. I remember when I was literally called fat in school by a boy. I let that one comment stew for years and let it affect how I thought about myself of how fat I was for years. Just stop letting Bobby’s comment from 6th grade bother you at the age of 34.
- Every body is different. This is hard one to digest but it’s true. Every body is different. My body is different than the mom sitting next to me. If you want to loose weight, then love your body that you have now. Show it compassion. Don’t compare it to Suzy.
- Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself how incredible you are because you really are.
- Stop thinking you’ll be happy when…. I loose 15 ibs … hold that thought for a hot minute because it’s not going to take over night. It’s going to take time but it will happen. Be happy and celebrate your success along the way.
- Do things that make you feel exceptional. Working out, personal growth books, self care, working in my faith all give me all the goods to make me feel alive and in love with myself.
- Stop comparing yourself to others and love the the body God blesses you with!
Remember you are truly a beautiful person and compliment that person looking back at you everyday. Go through each day with a smile on your face knowing that you are loving yourself for who who are.
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Today we live in a society that disease is on the rise. Common diseases include arthritis, heart, diabetes, cancer amongst others. When I was going through my journey with gestational diabetes, I became familiar with foods that are anti-inflammatory. Inflammation to the body is the root cause for a lot of known diseases and with the help of anti-inflammatory foods, they can help alleviate or combat the inflammation in our bodies. Learning about inflammation made me realize how I needed to take step back from unhealthy food choices not only for weight, but for my body to function as well. Incredible what our bodies can do for us and in return we need to be more mindful on how we nourish it. It’s powerful to know what foods play a role in our bodies.
what is inflammation? Inflammation of the body is a response that happens when your body is being attacked and it cannot function properly. Well just say that when the body is being attacked by invaders, antioxidant rich foods fight the invaders off. Sounds like a Star Wars Movie but in the body to me.
Moving away from overly processed foods like fast food, soda, refined sugars, and processed meets, to eating plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables, seeds, nuts, lean meats, superfoods, and whole grains are healthful to eliminate inflammation in the body. The produce drawer in the fridge is your best friend. Fill it with green leafy vegetables, celery, Broccoli, beets, fruits like blueberries high in antioxidants, citrus. Your pantry should be filled with whole grains like quinoa, farro, and nuts and seed like walnuts, chia seeds, and flaxseeds. I drink a daily shake rich in antioxidants and perfect for helping with inflammation of the body.
Here is a list of more foods that can help with inflammation:
- Olive Oil
The nutrition plan that I have followed for last five and half years has helped me focus on putting foods rich in antioxidants and are anti inflammatory to the body. With being high risk for many diseases in the family like diabetes, heart diseases, and cancer , its been a priority for me to really hone in on these types of foods. I eat 4 cups of vegetables and 3 cups or equivalent of fruit daily. Sounds like a lot but in the big picture, I know that I am giving my body the nourishment it needs daily.
Our bodies deserve the best and from the best of the best of foods.
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Personality tests- I know this may sound silly but really they help! I have taken the Enneogram test that is really hot right now amongst all the personal growth community. It’s a priest accurate test. It’s divided into types and my top two are type 4 and type 3. Type fours are authentic, expressive and creative individuals but can be can get depressed easily. Type threes are leaders, motivators, and goal oriented but can be total work alcoholics. Knowing my type called me too see my many strengths, but to realize me weaknesses so I can better work at them.
Journaling- journaling is a great way to connect with your thoughts. To get thought out on paper wether they be positive or even negative. It helps you to understand what you are thinking. Writing gratitudes or even writing down our current struggles has been proven to increase our happiness levels.
Daily self reflection- when you look in the mirror what do see? Look in the mirror everyday and compliment yourself on something… doesn’t matter what it is. Tell yourself something positive like your confident or beautiful. It sounds weird and maybe narcissistic to some, but the truth giving yourself that positive affirmation everyday gives your brain a confidence boost!
Ask questions- ask yourself honest questions like “how can I improve today?”, “how can I serve?” These can be great journal prompts to do before you start your day.
Write down your goals and track your progress- tracking yourself will help you see how far you have come.